There are a couple of things that you should not do in our house if you are the disciplined male. Unfortunately I got caught doing three of them in quick succession in the first few days of 2017.
Now you might think that because it is the holiday season and the New Year that one might be let off with a warning, but that is not the case with S, my Mistress and Wife.
Number one, I answered back. We were both rushing to get to work and I snapped at her when she asked me where her car keys were. I had taken her car to a wash and not put the keys back in the rack. Number two, she caught me wanking last Sunday afternoon. She had gone out for a walk in the nearby woods with a friend from the village and I was supposed to be getting a bedroom prepared for decorating next weekend. I got distracted and lay on the bed, letting my imagination go wild and she came in and found me with my pants down and my hand on my cock. Number three, I forgot to pay the December credit card bill and she got the reminder call. I also got that look from her about the call, so I am sure she will take it out on my bottom. So my demerit list, which had gone down to zero just before Christmas, when I got the painful session with the new cane, which I haven't written up in the blog as yet, has now gone up to 36 strokes in less than 6 days.
I hope the year gets off to a rollicking good start for you.
It is indeed an open book - what will I write in this blog in 2017 and what will I get to read about in this spanking community? Here are a few things that my wife and I talked about in bed over Christmas, when we were thinking about our relationship and how it might get livened up in 2017. I made a list to remind us both what was said. 1. Allow spanking to become a part of our daily routine. 2. Let pain give me the strength to take on new tasks 3. Hurt me more than I can bear with the cane 4. Embrace my submission. 5. Learn from my mistakes and ask for punishments
6. Each stroke should teach me a lesson. 7. Allow obedience to instruct my every thought 8. Rekindle the passion in our bed 9. Allow my wife to dominate and inspire me to work harder 10. Tell each other our deepest desires.
If it is a New Year's plan of yours to start a Female Led Relationship, and you want your partner to spank you or you want to find out how to start disciplining your man, but you don't know how to suggest either activity, then take a look at How to spank your man and read what Ms Wilder has to say on the subject and then at The disciplinary wives club