Breaking the drought

As a reader commented it seems that we may have “broken the drought on our sex and marriage problems”

The approach we took was via a tantric sex programme and videos on the net. I raised my needs a couple of months back and my wife told me she had her needs, so we talked it through and she came up with the tantric touching approach. I felt a bit uncomfortable to start with but over a couple sessions I got the hang of it and we both had some positive results. We avoided sex and I stayed away from my spanko desires. Finally on the eve of my birthday we took the touching to the level of oral sex for her and wanking for me. Afterwards we lay side by side and talked about the next stages.

The next morning there was a whole new atmosphere in the kitchen and we decided to try some afternoon sex this week. 

We can’t get back to our younger days but there is still some life to be had yet.