January 2024 - some highs some lows

 Hello

How is everyone? I have thought about the spanking blogger fraternity quite a lot and I wish you a great 2024. 

Our marriage has survived and we are settled into a non discipline non spanking life with pretty much no sex. We sleep in separate rooms and I think she gets off with her toys when she wants some relief. I do the same with different toys and quite a lot of self spanking when she is out of the house. I wish things were different and that she was more into kink than she is but hey ho, that’s life. We have done some wild stuff in our 40 odd years together so I must not complain. 

The Australian Open is entertaining.

Enjoy your Saturday 

New video links

 I have refreshed a few video links in the list  over to the upper left hand side of this page. 

Have a good Sunday.

Breaking the drought

As a reader commented it seems that we may have “broken the drought on our sex and marriage problems”

The approach we took was via a tantric sex programme and videos on the net. I raised my needs a couple of months back and my wife told me she had her needs, so we talked it through and she came up with the tantric touching approach. I felt a bit uncomfortable to start with but over a couple sessions I got the hang of it and we both had some positive results. We avoided sex and I stayed away from my spanko desires. Finally on the eve of my birthday we took the touching to the level of oral sex for her and wanking for me. Afterwards we lay side by side and talked about the next stages.

The next morning there was a whole new atmosphere in the kitchen and we decided to try some afternoon sex this week. 

We can’t get back to our younger days but there is still some life to be had yet.

Saying hi

 

Got a few minutes and thought I would check in and say hi to everyone.

I hope you are all well and enjoying what you are doing  in whichever hemisphere you reside. 

Yesterday was a significant day as we shared the same bed and had sexual relations for the first time in almost two years. We had built up to it slowly during the day and talked about how it would be in bed. 

Let’s see how it goes. 

Difficulty with comments

 Try as I might I can’t find a way to leave a comment on another blog or a reply on my own blog when using the phone rather than a laptop. I am logged in correctly but there seems to be some setting that I can’t locate which would allow me to comment. 

I cannot use a laptop because ours is now a shared pc. I have this old iphone on which I can explore my spanking fetlife and write materials but it is all very unsatisfactory.

Still around on blogger, but no discipline to report on

Hi folks. I hope all is well with the spanking community and my blog friends. The spankings here remain thin on the ground. I think the sex part of our marriage might be over as my wife is not at all interested.

We are thinking of moving house. One of my first thoughts was what to do  with the blanket chest on the landing which contains a sizeable number of spanking implements. They are not much used now but getting rid of them would be a wrench.

More seriously, the question is where we would move to? I should like to sell up and go and live in Europe and have a motor home and travel around. This is not what my wife wants to do. She wants a small house in the UK, with its excellent public services and low tax rates! 

The absence of sex and spankings is worrying. There has been neither for nine months now. I have dropped hints to no avail. What is to be done?  I have thought about leaving and living on my own. Asking her if it’s ok to visit a disciplinarian. Putting up with things as they are and living with my fantasies because this is called getting older? Answers on a postcard please.

 

Stumbling along

 My wife and I talked of many things over the weekend. Mostly home and news stuff. I told her how good she had looked on Saturday evening when we went out with friends. She accepted the compliment. I stroked her back a little and she purred catlike with pleasure. I suggested going upstairs. She said she wasn’t sure. I left it at that. I wanted to ask her to discipline me but didn’t. Hey Ho.

Puzzled

 Hi I can’t seem to do certain things when using blogger on the phone. Probably my own fault. Commenting is difficult - CB I am trying to leave comments- and organising dates off post publishing - see a post from yesterday which has come up before the post from the day before. Hope I resolve things soon. Talking of which my wife and I are going away in a mini break this weekend so I am going to pack a paddle and take a gift fir her. Maybe something will come up as they say. Meanwhile news from the world just gets worse doesn’t it. Enjoy whatever holiday you have in your part of the world today.

Missing you all and TWD

Hi I hope you are all well. It’s been some time since I was blogging. I decided to clean up my act and lose the pc with all the spanking stuff. Basically my wife started to want to use my laptop from time to time when we were travelling a bit in 2021. I could see trouble ahead so I announced the untimely death of my Dell and the need to buy a new laptop. I transferred all my stuff and images and videos to a Cloud account and my old laptop was destroyed and minced up. Then I got a new phone and kept this one for my fetish viewing. This phone lives in my briefcase drawer with an impossible to crack password. So as it is difficult to type a lot on an iphone I haven’t done any blogging.

The other thing that’s taken my mind off blogging is that my wife has lost interest in sex and has no desire to get into spanking.

Hence my online silence. Anything I write about now will have to be based on historical happenings or some fiction. Maybe she will get her libido back sometime soon. 

Only time will tell. In the meantime all the instruments are gone from the blanket chest in the hall and all I can do is look longingly at the bath brush in the shower.