Self restraint and denial

Some F/M blogs are not really to my taste. For example  I have no desire to have my penis caged, be a sissy, have pins inserted into me  or to be milked. I am much happier on the general spanking side of FLR or domestic F/M. I do however get a kick out of wearing knickers (panties)
so I might occasionally mention that .

I can get some pleasure from being denied an orgasm but this is more along the lines of my wife giving me an instruction along the lines of


 “ Thank you for making me come, but now I want to sleep, so you will have to have your fun another time.”

Going to bed knowing that I must not touch a rock hard penis is a very exquisite exercise in submission. I suppose the longest that I have been told not to play with myself is maybe 10 days, whilst my wife was away on a conference. When she arrived back she made me stand naked in the corner of the bedroom as she ran the tip of a riding crop over my shoulders, lower back and bottom cheeks. 

She asked me repeatedly if I had touched myself in her absence and flicked the tab inside my legs against my bottom and testicles. I was practically begging for a hard whipping but instead she told me to masturbate and hold the cum in my fingers. It took me only a few seconds to orgasm, as I submerged myself in her dominance, with the whip end running on my skin. When I had stopped shuddering with the rapid orgasm she told me to turn around. Once she had inspected the contents of my hand and was satisfied by the amount of cum that I was telling the truth, she slapped the front of my legs repeatedly with the tip of the crop and told me to swallow my stuff and lick my fingers dry.
 When I had done as I was told and drunk the warm semi-liquid  she told me to go away and get on with the evening meal whilst she took a bath.

 The following day she rewarded my restraint and good behaviour with a thorough hairbrush spanking .

More usually I am told not to play with myself for only a few days. This can be a real turn on, but as I say I would not like to be wearing any special equipment that physically prevents manual handling.

I have to admit to disobeying the instruction on occasions and hoping not get found out, but what else would you expect from a man.